Sunday, September 12, 2010

& then another weekend disappeared.

I can't believe that is is 9:30 on Sunday evening...I feel like the weekend just got here. I'm currently sitting on my balcony with a cold Blue Moon in hand, feet propped up on a cooler, waiting for Steve to get home and tell me about the date he went on. The weather is cool, but still has the hint of summer drifting through the breeze. the sky is cloud free tonight--the pitch black, starless ceiling above me is both beautiful and daunting. I am still not completely accustomed to this new scenery being home...I feel like I'm on some ridiculous vacation--one that requires talking to complete strangers and trying to get them excited about important issues, bossing around a staff, and early mornings.

This weekend was incredibly fun, however. Friday night was Fashion's Night Out in Georgetown, and I reconnected with an old friend from home, Morgan, and we went together. It was a really cool atmosphere--a lot of people were super dressed up, the stores were open super late, and the clothes, of course, were fabulous. We only hit a few designer stores before we got distracted by the beauty that is a two-story Urban Outfitters that is open until midnight. After spending the majority of our time there, we migrated to a nearby bar to meet Steve and two of his friends. I forgot that Georgetown is a college area, so the crowd was super young, thus, super wasted. The dance floor was illuminated by cheesy lighting and Katy Perry lyrics, and occupied by swaying bodies and swishing mixed drinks. I was pulled to the dance floor (with the signature "casting a fishing line" move...I am a sucker for cheesiness) by a very ridiculous male, and I remembered why most girls do not dance with white males (they are super awkward). After a couple songs of entertaining dance moves, I excused myself to chat with Morgan and catch up on her life. It amazes me that you can be apart from people for so long (she and I hadn't seen each other in over a year), and still have a natural, easy-going conversation. A few drinks & a lot of laughs later, we headed back home for the night.

I had to work Saturday, but it was actually pretty fun because I canvassed with Katie, who I refer to more as a friend than a co-worker. The day went by remarkably fast, which was good because I was uber-excited for the evening's festivities. After closing up the office, Steve, Allie, Alex, and I headed out to Adams Morgan for debauchery and ridiculousness. We first hit up a restaurant/bar that I always forget the name of--I really only know it as "The Place with Stouth $5 Martinis". We had a tasty dinner, drank some delicious martinis & sangria, and spent some quality time with a Mr. James Charles. Now, James Charles first approached our table with the line "Have you ever had an olive before?". During his visit, he described Allie as "a vampire with boobs", told Alex to "get ready for a man to come into her life", told me that I was "smart, freckly, beautiful, and laughed too much", and--best of all--told Steve that he was an incredible guy, "no homo". The entire experience was absolutely ridiculous, but I have come to expect this whenever we go out in this silly city.

So after our too brief encounter with James Charles, we made the trek to The Black Squirrel--a bar in the heart of Adams Morgan. Adams Morgan is definitely a wild neighborhood--the entire streets are flooded with young people who have had too much to drink, too little money to spend, and friends that do not love them enough to not let them out of the house in the outfit they've selected (seriously...so many girls had shorts on that basically looked like boy short underwear). Once we hit the bar, rounds of Red Headed Slut shots were passed out, the house ale was consumed, and Steve & I introduced Alex & Allie to sweet tea vodka. It was awesome getting to know everyone on a level that wasn't work related--we had a fantastic time. I feel so fortunate that I work with people that I would want to be friends with, even if we weren't in forced capacity of each other everyday. They are funny, smart, and driven--my kind of people, ya know.
Steve, me, Alex, & Allie post-delicious pizza consumption

After a struggle of a walk back to the Metro & a pit stop for the biggest slices of pizza I have ever seen, the four of us headed back to mine & Steve's apartment for a well deserved rest. We all got to sleep in this morning, which was beyond words, and today was spent taking it easy, shopping, and reflecting. I have been super Boone-sick lately, and I hope this will soon be remedied soon. I never thought I could miss a group of people so much! However, I am so excited about this opportunity I've been given, and embrace each moment. Tonight, a praying mantis landed right next to me on the balcony. I looked up the symbolism of his visit, and the appearance of a praying mantis is a message to be still, breathe, and clear up the clutter in your heart. I thank that little guy for his visit, and will be doing just that for the next few days.

It is getting colder as I've written this entry...fall is almost here. :)

Thursday, September 9, 2010

I wanted to do this awhile ago.

When I first moved to DC, I thought it would be a good idea to keep a blog to keep my people informed on my adventures, trials, and encounters. I have not really had the time to do such thing, especially since I'm working 12-14 hours a day. But! I have a moment now, so here we go.

I moved from the people I have loved more than anyone else in the world on July 24th. Moving from my Boone family was probably one of the most difficult things I have ever done. These are people that have seen me through the best, worst, ridiculous, and drunken times of my life. I have grown to be so comfortable with them, it was such a shock to think that they wouldn't be right next door anymore. However, there were many things in Boone that I was ready to leave. Despite all the wonderful memories I have in Boone, there are things that have happened there that I am very willing to leave behind. Besides, no one ever moved forward by staying in one place...so, when the opportunity to move away arose, I took it.

I'm living in North Bethesda, Maryland with my friend, Steven. We met through a mutual best friend, and I am pleased to say that we are working out great as roommates, friends, and co-workers. Steve & I are both Assistant Directors for Grassroots Campaigns, Inc (the DC office). It's nice having someone that is going through the same things I am--missing North Carolina, stressing out over a job, someone to watch Top Chef with--and I am grateful to have him here. Plus! I have been super blessed to have had so many visitors since I have been in DC--I'm glad I picked a place that people want to come visit and explore.

As for work...whew. It's a doozy. Canvassing is definitely not for the weak--in fact, I think it should be considered an extreme sport. It takes endurance, practice, and a hell of a lot of strength. I have had some of the most ridiculous encounters, and am now immune to homeless people asking me to buy them lunch. I never cease to surprise myself at times--I am shocked by how quickly I have adapted to mastering the Metro system, being a boss in an office, and already hating DC tourists. I sometimes feel like I have been living in this city my entire life...and then I see something so iconic, like Congress or the Washington Memorial, and I am in awe that I have been given such an awesome opportunity to live and work in such an incredible place.

Besides canvassing my ass off 15 hours a week, I love running an office. Apparently I'm pretty good at it too--I was promoted to Lead Assistant Director, and was asked to be the Lead Assistant Director at an office opening in Scranton, Pennsylvania (I know, my inner-'Office'' character swooned). The only catch was that I was going to have to move on Wednesday (yes, yesterday)...so I had to decline the offer. However, I am being developed to become the Head Director for the DC office, or wherever I end up, which is super exciting. I don't think this is something I want to do for the rest of my life, but it is an exciting career move for right now.

The question I get asked most is how my social life is going. I know this derives from how I was such a busy bee in Boone, and I must say that I am doing the best I can with what I am given. Working 12 hours  a day doesn't leave much room to join a club or class, but I really love the people I work with and they are a fun bunch. Steve and I usually go out every weekend, and although he prefers gay bars, as long as I dance and get free drinks I am happy. The music scene here is absolutely incredible--it is so nice to live in a place where there are shows with bands that I actually want to see. Dylan and I went and saw Crystal Castles a couple of weeks ago, and for being my first show in DC, it was totally bad ass.

So, here I am--everyone's favorite freckled Jew living on her own in the city. I feel so incredibly blessed to have my friends and family so consistently calling, texting, sending letters, and keeping in touch to make me know that I am missed and loved. I am about to embark on a lot more journeys--I am going to both NYC & Las Vegas in October (NYC with Sarah, Brian, and potentially Nathaniel; Las Vegas with my Katie Lane)!!! I don't know what life has in store for me, but I have a feeling that although things are kind of tough and lonely now, they are going to get a lot better.

Sorry for this first entry being more introductory than anything, things will be more entertaining later. I miss and love you all so incredibly much--come visit soon, and keep reading!
xoxo